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Lines In The Sand

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Every relationship has ground rules, and everyone who has been in a relationship for an appreciable length of time knows what they are.

So when you’re arguing, you know that there are certain buttons you just don’t push, certain subjects that you just don’t broach.

You Just Don’t Go There.

And when you cross those boundaries, you know there will be consequences, ranging from getting the cold shoulder for the next few days, to unwilling celibacy for the foreseeable future, to having her/him toss you out on your ass.

And when your argument spills over into physical violence, expect that one or both of you will go to jail when the cops get involved.

Likewise, there are some things you Just Don’t Get To Say.

If your spouse/lover/life partner/ babydaddy chose to get the police involved, or if a third party overheard your argument and called 911…

… well, suffice it to say we don’t grant Mulligans. You don’t get to take it back.

And chief among those things You Just Don’t Get To Say in an argument is, “I’m just going to kill myself.”

Almost as bad, but without the implied threat, is, “I wish I was dead.”

Make the threat more specific, like say, threatening a specific way to do harm to yourself, just adds the element of a defined plan to your suicide threat, and makes it all the more credible.

Say those things, and I can guarantee you one outcome: You. Will. Go. To. The. Hospital.

Your only choices are whether you go restrained or unrestrained. You don’t get to say no any more.

And yes, I am perfectly willing to believe that you said it in the heat of anger and didn’t really mean it.

I also believe that someone who seriously intends to kill him/herself would be willing to tell any lie necessary to get the cops and paramedics to leave so they can get on with mixing their hemlock smoothie.

You don’t get to be that person.

And no, I don’t really give a rat’s ass if you get a mental health record or if you have class/work/social engagements in the morning that you just can’t miss.

Neither am I going to lose sleep over the fact that a 48-hour stint in the psych ward ruins your chance at that law enforcement career you’ve been so zealously pursuing, or takes you out if the running for Man Of The Year at the local Rotary Club.

Pleading with me for lenience is only going to fall on deaf ears. The only leniency you get is the ability to choose the pleasantness of the ride.

You made the threat. I don’t get to decide whether it is credible, nor do I want that responsibility. Plead your case to the ED doc and the mental health tech if you want. Sometimes, if they believe your story, they’ll cut you loose.

But it’s my job to get you there for that conversation, and get you there I will.

Fighting with me is pointless. I will win that fight, every single time, and all your struggle only guarantees that you will spend the next 48-72 hours walking around in shoes without laces and talking to psychiatrists about things you’d rather not discuss with strangers.

So, consequences.

Don’t like ‘em, then don’t say those things. Don’t cross that line in the sand.

Hugs and Kisses,
Your friendly neighborhood Ambulance Driver

  • Kristopher

     It ain’t the police that are the real problem, tjic.

    The suicide’s relatives will sue him into poverty if he does not follow procedure and the suicide offs himself.

  • mpatk

    Roberta X said it best. Calling 911 or a suicide hotline is NOT the same as simply “mention[ing] it out loud”. It is either a cry for help, or a demand for attention. I am not willing to risk my livelihood and my family’s security for the freedom of someone whose actions are DESIGNED for them to have their freedom taken away.

    If a person is So much of an attention whore that they must make their “suicide” a big dramatic production (or they’re too stupid to see the consequences of such attention) then they’ve brought the psych hold on themselves BY THEIR ACTIONS.

    I’ll support someone’s freedom of self determination, not their freedom to tie up valuable public safety resources with grandstanding dramatics.

  • http://profiles.google.com/yrrosimyarin Yrro Simyarin

    It’s a lot easier saying that when it’s one issue, and it isn’t your life. Of course, that cuts both ways. But given that we are talking about ostensibly medical treatment, not death camps…

    What good does he do getting fired, I guess, is my question. That isn’t going to change the law. Go start a movement and write pamphlets and picket or something.

    One prison guard refusing to be a prison guard just results in a job posting.

  • http://twitter.com/tmoreau2 ILTim

     The law is no excuse, only cowards hide behind it.

  • http://twitter.com/tmoreau2 ILTim

     What really grates me here is not the person who dials 911 and threatens suicide, or the person who’s locked in a bathroom threatening the swallow the whole medicine cabinet while someone else calls…. its the bold statement that if I mumble “I’d be better off dead” in my front yard then walk inside, the G-man will come and take me away.  No explanations, no assessment of the situation, simply “Your only choices are whether you go restrained or unrestrained.”

    A rational person now lives with the awareness that the right buzzwords or catch phrases will bring your friendly Hugs and Kisses neighborhood Ambulance Driver to take you away.  Not the national guard, swat, or even local police.  Whats next, a mailmen with tasers and handcuffs?

    Beware while your BS’ing with friends over a few too many beers on the patio, say the wrong thing and poof you’ll be swept off “restrained or unrestrained”.  Lethal defensive force is the LEAST I can offer, and the most I’ll publicly advocate.  

    I absolutely don’t give a rats ass what the law says about any of this. 

  • Ambulance_Driver

    1. I’m never doing it by myself. The police are always with me. In some jurisdictions, the police transport. In ours, the EMT’s do. But the police are almost always involved.
    2. You neglected to read that whole comment thread about where we DO assess the situation. I’m likely to take the word of a calm and lucid patient over some vague and shadowy 911 callers who is not on the scene and didn’t give a name. However, if the patient admits to saying it, my hands are tied. I’m not the one who gets to decide whether it was a valid threat or not. The ED doctor is.
    3. In the context of “coming to take you away,” I’m more like the guy who gets to take you to the embarkation point where you *might* get taken away if the doctor is convinced you are a danger to yourself, and…
    4. Your only choices in that matter ARE restrained or unrestrained. The majority go unrestrained and we have a pleasant ride and a conversation on how to best convince the ED doc that you’re not a danger to yourself, but I can and will restrain you if that is the only way to accomplish that transport.
    But let’s not confuse my “fish or cut bait” speech, often given an hour or more on scene AFTER I have assessed the patient and the situation, with me throwing my weight around and being overly authoritarian. I work a 911 ambulance, and emergency calls are holding while I’m trying to convince the drama queen why she shouldn’t threaten to kill herself if she didn’t really mean it.
    5. As for “who the fuck gives me the right” to do all this, it’s your friendly neighborhood Congresscritter, via the Baker Act, but I don’t look at it as a right, more like a dirty job I’d rather not have.
    6. There is a simple way to keep from even needing deadly force to resist such things: don’t open your mouth and threaten suicide, even jokingly. I’d much rather not be on scene when the liberty-loving dude gets gunned down over his principles because it was his right to get good cops and medics involved in his drama play.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    A fine theory, out in that libertarian utopia that doesn’t exist.

    A fine *theory*, most especially when you’re not the subject of the theoretical exercise.

  • Duke

    Another example why you NEVER give police any more info than you legally have to. 

  • Wing and a Whim

    If part of being an adult is being responsible for your own actions, and the repercussions of those actions, then shouldn’t this criticism be aimed at the person who took the action of stating a suicide threat? AD isn’t exactly showing up out of the blue on slow Thursday to haul some completely unsuspecting blameless citizen off to the gulag; he and the police are there precisely because threats of harm were made by the person who now doesn’t want to deal with the consequences of their actions.

    Trying to get him to shirk his own duties, responsibilities, and legal obligations, and suffer all the consequences thereof, is a damn poor way of trying to get some other person out of the consequences of their own actions.

    tl;dr summary: That’s not a dragon you’re tilting at, sir, it’s a windmill.

  • Anonymous, for various reasons

    Well, you stirred ‘em up good this time, didn’t you Kelly? Bunch of wannabe libertarians who can’t think their way out of a wet paper bag and have absolutely no idea that our founding fathers understood the relationship between rights and responsibility very well. Somehow, these guys seem to have read the Bill of Rights and not the whole constitution, which is a wonderful balance between one branch of government and another, the federal governments and the states, and any government as against the individual. Thomas Jefferson is shaking his head and saying, “No, fool, rights don’t mean you can do whatever you want so long as you don’t think anyone else will get hurt. There are obligations to citizenship as well.”

    So, let’s get down to brass tacks. First, AD is absolutely right. There is nothing in this blogpost with which any well-informed, reasonably intelligent person would argue. 

    There are a couple of posts from well-informed, reasonably intelligent people. The rest are deficient on one side or another of that equation.

    Maybe it’s bona fides time. I am a social worker with 35 years experience. Doctoral level. I’ve worked in public and private settings, rural and urban, child protection and mental health. I’ve seen all of this from all sides: as a professional and a part of the system, as someone who has family members with serious mental health problems, and as a 24-year recovering alcoholic with infrequent bouts of depression and panic attacks (hence the efforts at self-medication, early on, which eventually led to this truly wonderful life of recovery.) 

    The poster who talked about his experience with psychiatrists was right on both grounds: there really are those crooks and wackos out there, and it really is anecdotal evidence. There are far more well-meaning and competent mental health workers (not just MDs, but psychologists, nurses, social workers, counselors, etc.) The well-meaning and competent far outnumber the crooks and wackos. The crooks and wackos, unfortunately, cause negative effects way out of proportion to their numbers. Here’s the thing: even if you are brought to the goony roost on an involuntary commitment, you have the right to ask for a doctor you can work with. You don’t have to take the first Joe or Jane who comes along. If they seem hinky to you for any reason, get another. Keep trying. 

    AD is right, that all too often the MDs over-rely on medication. I have helped people get off ridiculous amounts of meds. Just this month, I encountered a 12 y.o. boy whose doctor had him on Ritalin and Adderal. No kid needs two different stimulants, no matter how ADHD they may really be. I will point out that this gaffe was caused by a pediatrician, not a psychiatrist, but that is no guarantee that it couldn’t have been. I’ve seen some crazy stuff.

    Without offering phony excuses, I have to say this: there are not nearly enough well-meaning, competent psychiatrists to handle the load. They do get rushed. They just don’t have the time, way too often, to really get to know the patient. That’s where people like me come in. I have good relationships with the docs in town. They know I get to spend tons more time with our patients than they do. I don’t try to tell them how to practice medicine, and they don’t try to tell me how to do psychotherapy. But we listen to each other, and when they have bungled it, they will correct it. You can’t ask for more, because you can’t suddenly concoct a huge new supply of well-meaning, competent psychiatrists.

    So, you’ve got different groups of people who Kelly is talking about. You’ve got the truly depressed, who are truly having suicidal ideation, who may not want to go the psych unit, but who are so glad they did when the depression lifts enough that they are no longer suicidal. Genuine suicidal ideation is not the planned suicide Dr. Kavorkian talked about (and this is not about my opinion of Dr. Kavorkian’s effectiveness as an advocate.) Genuine suicidal ideation is irrational. It makes no sense to anyone except the person who’s got it. It is a symptom of an often deadly illness. If someone suddenly started slurring their words, couldn’t raise both arms equally, and passed out, you wouldn’t argue that they ought to have given informed consent before being transported to the ER. You get that stroke treated. Same here. People in that condition are not capable — let me emphasize that, NOT CAPABLE — of giving informed consent. Those who have not seen enough of this, have no idea how powerful and compelling irrationality can be. Shut the hell up and listen to people who do know. Period.

    Then you’ve got the maladroit, of both genders. They don’t know how to handle a conflict or a bad situation, and they start to wish they didn’t have to. Or, worse, they use threats (to self or others, as the legal language goes) to force their preferred outcome on someone else. Libertarians of all stripes, get this and get it right: emotional blackmail is no more defensible than physical coercion. You wouldn’t stand by while the guy beat up his girl friend, would you? (If you would, then you have no standing in this discussion at all.)

    In both of those cases, Kelly does not have the competence to decide. He knows this. He knows that I am not slamming him. I don’t do what he does, he doesn’t do what I do. With my Red Cross certification and my Scout training (kept constantly up to date as an asst. scoutmaster, training new Scouts), I know damn well when I want Kelly or his brothers/sisters there beside me. And Kelly knows when he wants me on his side. Even if he had a choice, which he doesn’t, because both the law and his licensure don’t give him that option.

    The last category is the one that others have referred to: the person who really means to kill themselves. Tomorrow, my wife and I will observe the anniversary of the suicide of her son by a previous marriage. He didn’t tell anyone. He went off by himself and shot himself. How I wish someone could have man-handled him into an ambulance and taken him somewhere, where he would have had a chance of getting over to that other side where they say “thank God I didn’t succeed.” And that’s all I am going to say about that. The rest is between my wife and me.

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  • Chaplain Tim

    BTDT. The wife, in the middle of an argument, started talking about suicide. A third party called 911 on her. 48 hour hold because I told the cops what she had said as well as her reactions to the police and ER doctor. All of my medical training has taught that if you’re dealing with someone who A) has a family history of suicide, B) is full of rage or anger, and C) starts listing methods they could use to end their life then you have someone who is in need of psychiatric evaluation.
    Somehow, I am at fault in her mind. My marriage is pretty much over, but I stand by my decision to send her to the “loony bin” for a couple of days rather than having to call the ambulance to drag her corpse out of my house. Words DO have consequences, and all your philosophical musings about individual rights mean absolutely nothing if you have to deal with someone who has crossed the line.

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  • Matt Radcliffe

    You are advocating detaining someone who has not necessarily committed any crime, without due process of law (a trial), for expressing an opinion (that they are better off dead/ wish they were dead), based only on hearsay.

    If they had tried to bargain with a suicide threat they deserve to have a trial for what I presume to be extortion under the law.

    If they announce to you that they plan to jump off a bridge tomorrow morning you may have an argument for civil commitment but expressing the opinion that they are better off dead is no more proof of suicide than telling your mother in law to “drop dead” is proof of attempted murder.

    1st 5th and 6th amendments seem to be fairly clearly trounced on in your description.

    This is of course skipping over the moral questions of a right to self determination (do people have the right to off themselves), and the basic human right to choices in healthcare and a system that often drugs people against their will.

    From your comments below I do not believe that you are as extreme as the article makes it sound but I think that you are still very far removed from the morality of a free society. I think you are trying to help people but don’t agree with how. I am equally sure that most of the people involved in the soviet revolution were trying to help the workers, and most of the English people in the colonial days thought that the British Empire was helpful to the savages.

    As a fair hint to freedom: If anyone is pleading with you to not ruin their professional life and lock them up without a trial and with no proof you need to look closely at what you are doing especially when you are just doing what someone told you to. Like others have said: you are responsible for the morality of your own actions even if it is “legal” in your state.

    To wrap this up, it may be morally better to choose safety over freedom. There are plenty of countries that choose that path but ours is not yet one of them. You are entitled to the opinion that our country should move to that, I recommend you try to have a constitutional amendment grant all sorts of exceptions to the bill of rights so you can lock people up “for their own good. Right now we have a constitution and history of placing individual rights over what is most “safe”.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     If someone charges you with a knife and you shoot him it is self defense. If someone charges you with a knife and you draw your gun and tell him to give you his wallet or you will shoot him it is extortion.

    If you are a cop and you arrest a burglar it is good. If you tell him to strip naked and run down the street or you will arrest him it is extortion (and abuse of authority).

    If you tell your wife goodby you are going to jump off a bridge it is announcing your intent to commit suicide (in my opinion ethical ok but likely not legal). If your wife is talking about leaving you and you say you will jump off a bridge if she does that is clear extortion. If she says she is leaving and you immediately say you are going to kill yourself it could be argued that it is implied extortion to try and make her stay but to me it is less clear.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     You have your three categories.
    1. Suicidal and incompetent (by your claim)
    2. Criminal and manipulative
    3. Actively attempting suicide.

    Even if we agree with you that the first category need immediate psychiatric help and are not competent to make decisions any other patient would have the right to have their family make decisions about their care. How do we impose a permanent legal harm on them before we know if they fall in that category? Unless the person admits to being suicidal we are talking about removing the vast majority of a persons civil rights and their liberty with no trial based only on one statement by one witness with no guarantee that they don’t have an axe to grind. You make a reasonable argument for commitment for the people that need it but fail to address how to determine those people. Remember that this has lifelong consequences like removing the right for them ever to buy a gun even if it is later shown that they never said anything suicidal in the first place.
    How is it that the same medical profession that honors DNR paperwork believes that they have the right to force their help on others in all cases?

    For the second group they deserve a full jury trial. By your own account they are criminals that are harming someone else but you are not the judge or jury to punish them even though you obviously want to be. Again, even if they fit your description you are ignoring the issue of if they said it or not. I will not claim that it is in any way defensible to emotionally manipulate another in such a cruel way but we still have to prove that even those accused of the most vile acts are guilty before we lock them away. That whole “Innocent until proven guilty” thing is inconvenient but vital to a free society.

    There are three things to address in the third category:
        1. The original post was concerning verbal statements
        2. If they don’t give it away in the first place this never becomes a question
        3. There are considerably less question on proof when an active attempt is interrupted than when someone claims that a threat was made
    I am genuinely sorry for your loss but that doesn’t mean that I will agree with your conclusions. There is too much potential for abuse when anyone can have anyone else locked up just by lying about them being suicidal.

    My personal opinion is that in any case where a person contests involuntary commitment they should have a chance for a jury trial even if they have to be held under suicide watch until they are committed by a jury. It appears to have the best safeguards for due process on one side while still being likely to stop a suicidal person and get them help. There are some difficult questions about bail in such a situation but it is better than giving away all civil rights anytime it is “for our own good”.

  • Matt Radcliffe

    Also remember that as soon as a person is committed into a mental institution they loose their rights to poses a gun or ammunition permanently without any jury or trial and without any criminal act being necessary nor any permanent defect being (necessarily) present.

  • mpatk

     First of all, the EMTs and medics are not detaining anyone.  We have a say; but the police are doing the detaining (police must fill out the involuntary hold form, not the EMTs), and even they are not “locking them up”.  The involuntary hold must be approved by a licensed doctor or psychiatric professional; i.e. someone who IS qualified to place the person into one of the three categories.  When AD talks about taking someone in, he’s talking about taking someone FOR EVALUATION, not for the hold itself.

    For my part, I do a lot more of what you’re accusing AD of: I do a lot of transfers from EDs to lock-down psych facilities for the actual hold (or longer).  In my experience, the people brought in by police/ambulance are always either significantly altered (i.e. hallucinating or psychotic) or have physical evidence of a suicide attempt (lacerated wrists, overdose, or setting their hair on fire).  Neither police nor ambulance people want to put someone on an involuntary psychiatric hold; from a cynical perspective, the hold paperwork is a huge pain in the ass, and it’s easier to just drop someone at the ED (or in a holding cell) and pass the buck to someone else.

    Yes, people get put on involuntary holds that shouldn’t be; but in my experience they fall into two categories. The first are people who voluntary walk into the ED who somehow convince the experts that they’re a danger to themselves (e.g. make a credible threat).  The second, and most infuriating IMHO, are children being committed at the parents’ request.

    I know the plural of anecdote isn’t data; but I’ve done a lot of those transfers and, at least out here in California, the system seems to work properly.  The ones police and ambulance bring in for involuntary holds are either seeking help (suicidal gesture vs. serious attempt) or truly are not competent to make decisions on their own welfare.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    That is patently untrue, Matt.

    You need to read your laws and the AtF form 4473 closer, because you’re way off the mark. I just wrote a post debunking that myth yesterday.

  • Matt Radcliffe

    One may well ask: “How can you advocate breaking some laws and
    obeying
    others?” The answer lies in the fact that there are two types of laws: just and unjust. I
    would be the first
    to advocate obeying just laws. One has not only a legal but a moral responsibility to obey
    just laws.
    Conversely, one has a moral responsibility to disobey unjust laws. I would agree with St.
    Augustine
    that “an unjust law is no law at all.”
    Martin Luther King Junior

    You are responsible for choosing the morality of your own actions.  You may be doing so but ILTtim is correct that law does not define morality even though morality “should” limit law.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     In response to #2 that is much more reasonable but it is the opposite of what you said in the original post where it was “Say those things, and I can guarantee you one outcome: You. Will. Go. To. The. Hospital.”In response to #3 you are physically detaining someone without probable cause to believe a crime has been committed. You may only have the legal authority for a limited time span but you are taking someone away from where they choose to be. In response to #5 California may not like it but their laws are limited by the US constitution and the supreme court was well as human rights. We are not arguing that the law of California doesn’t approve of your actions but that its approval doesn’t necessarily make it legally right and it has no bearing on its being morally correct or not. How long has it been since homosexuality was a disease that needed treating by mental health professionals? #6 is good advice but then again keeping ones mouth shut about racial equality in 1960s Florida would have been safer too. The safe and easy road is not necessarily the easy one. Don’t anyone think that I approve of deadly force in such a situation, civil and peaceful resistance to these actions are by far more preferable and more effective but however peaceful the resistance to injustice and tyranny is a American ideal.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     The argument here is still that of someone removing the liberty of another just to protect themselves. It is one of the weaker arguments for this on here ethically  but one of the strongest to many people who are concerned with their own life.

    Removing someone else’s freedom is not justified to cover ones own ass. It may be justified on other grounds.

  • Matt Radcliffe

    If you see something you believe to be an injustice but are coerced into it is the moral course to accept it or to oppose the coercion? Would it be better to fight the legal situation that makes you legally responsible for the actions of another?

  • Ambulance_Driver

    And if fighting it the way you’d have us do it results in us being unemployed and unable to provide for our families, and subject to various criminal and civil penalties?
    Would that be morally acceptable to you?

    There are a number of ways of fighting within the system without choosing a frontal assault doomed to fail.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    No, it’s not the opposite of what I said in the original post. I said, as you directly quoted, “Say those things, and I can guarantee you one outcome: You. Will. Go. To. The. Hospital.”
    If you DO say those things, then that is exactly what will happen.

    If you are ALLEGED to have said those things, then I looks for corroboration and weigh the patient’s words against the callers.
    In regards to #3, it’s not about a crime at all. It’s about a presumption that an imminent threat to life and safety of the patient and others exists, based upon available evidence, including the words, actions and physical evidence of the patient and credible witnesses. You can be taken in for questioning as a material witness or suspect in a crime, without being formally charged. You have rights during that questioning, as outlined in Miranda and other established legal doctrine, but it is not “depriving you of your liberty.”
    As for the rest of your reply, I can appreciate your sentiments, but let me ask you one simple question: Have you never, not even once, obeyed a law that you felt was wrong, silly, or even unjust?
    If you’re telling me you’ve been able to remain morally in compromised in all your years on this Earth, then I applaud you for accomplishing something virtually no other human being has.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    I can’t disagree with any of that statement.

    I guess the difference is that the times I feel my actions are morally justified in following that law far outweigh the times I feel it is an injustice, and I see no point in sacrificing the good I do for a protest doomed to fail.
    Kelly Grayson

  • Matt Radcliffe

     To be fair to them the paycheck/civil liability is only one of their motivating factors. They may believe that they are doing the right thing and that this is justified in saving a life. That is a legitimate moral argument even if it does oppose what some of us believe were the principals of the founding fathers.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     Yes that is one outlook but if you look back at the original article it is about dragging someone off if they mention the idea in a conversation with someone not about someone calling a suicide hotline. Even if they do that asking for someone to talk to is no the same as asking for the help of being locked up.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     And you are evidently a lawful authority involuntarily taking someone to a mental health facility because you judge them to be a danger to themselves. A person would have to dig into legal precedent to argue if you are a legal authority or not.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     On the questions of if we are talking about being detained this is a clear example. Someone is being threatened with being attacked by multiple security guards, tied up and injected with medication because they allegedly said something when they were drunk. Using unnecessary medical treatment as a threat to detain someone is low. If they were arguing about wanting to leave so that they could go kill themselves you would have more high ground but if they are just saying that they don’t want to be locked up against their will then it is less defensible.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    No, all you need to do is read the instructions on Form 4473 and learn the legal distinction between a PEC/ psych hold and an actual commitment and/or adjudication in court.
    It spells it out pretty clearly, and in this case, you are wrong.

    Kelly Grayson

  • Matt Radcliffe

     Yes, people are responsible for their own words. But they have rights.

    What happened to the semi driver is a horrible thing but we should not lock up anyone that MAY someday do something horrible.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     Even if you choose to go along with what is expected of you a little more understanding for people would be compassionate in the original article. The whole hauling them all off with no remorse or concern for if they are guilt thing does read a bit callus. There is no body language or tone of voice on the internet.

  • Matt Radcliffe

    Choosing to follow a law that is wrong, silly or unjust to yourself is a personal choice. Following a law that is an injustice to others is morally wrong. I can’t think of any time that I have imposed an injustice on another under cover of law.

    Whenever someone is detained against their will they are being deprived of liberty. This is allowed under many laws and it is morally acceptable only somewhat less often then it is legal but to claim that liberty has not been deprived when you lock someone where they do not choose to be is a prima facie fallacy.

    Anytime you do not hear the words yourself but still judge them to have been said you are acting in place of a jury.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    Actually, the 4473 also makes exceptions for voluntary commitments. Per the written instructions by ATF, if you voluntarily committed yourself to a mental institution, you may answer NO to line 11f.

  • mpatk

     While I also agree that Detroit EMT’s remarks sound unprofessional, you’re missing a very important point.

    The patient is threatened with the security guards and medication ONLY IF HE THROWS A PUNCH.  In other words, only if the patient becomes a physical threat to the EMT will he be subject to restraint by the guards and RN.

    For my part, I’ll usually explain that there is a legal piece of paper that says they will go with me.  If they’re reasonable in their arguments, then I’ll usually talk to them about how to most quickly get released and how to avoid another psych hold in the future.  However, the instant they cock their fist or take a kick at me, they get the “Sit down or be tied down” ultimatum.  I’ve had colleagues hospitalized due to assaults by patients like this; and a lot of the patients are thinking, “I’m on a psych hold, I can’t be arrested for what I do right now.”

    That is generally every EMT/Medic’s breaking point.  Call us whatever vile name you want, shout anything to anyone in hearing; but if you become a real physical threat, the game changes.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     Taking physical action to protect yourself is completely justified unless it is established that you were wrongfully holding him and were therefore the source/cause of the conflict. As long as you are justified in holding the person you have every right to defend yourself with all necessary force.
    Problems
    1. Just because that force is justified in defense doesn’t mean it is justified in all threats you may use if you use that threat to coerce anything beyond your safety then it becomes less moral.
    2. Drugging them. Most of us view involuntary administration of drugs as being way up the ladder of force. Not only is it a potentially dangerous tool it is one of the stronger violations of a person that is possible. Altering the way someone thinks removes their self determination physically and also assaults the mind that in all other things remains involute. To use it when not absolutely necessary is nothing short of criminal, to use it as a threat is little better.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    Just to be clear here: the only people we drug are those who are CLEARLY not in possession of their mental faculties, and the state of their physiologic arousal poses a danger to themselves and the rescuers. The why’s and wherefores are long enough for a blog post in itself.

    When we sedate someone, they are almost without exception people who are violent, and I’m not talking about those who say, “I’m not suicidal, I don’t care what someone else said, and if you try to take me against my will there’s gonna be a fight.”

    For *those* people, there is only a struggle if they wish one, and the physical force is limited to restraining the patient safely. Blows may be struck, although I fervently hope not, but rarely by me or the other EMT’s. Mostly it’s done by overwhelming numbers and speed sufficient that no blows CAN be struck. And once the patient is restrained, all of that ceases.

    Obviously, I find those struggles distasteful, but I will not shrink from them if that is my only option.

    The sedation is reserved for patients in a heightened state of physiologic arousal called “excited delirium.” Most often it is caused by mental illness and a combination of stimulant and/or hallucinogenic street drugs. Sedation for THOSE patients is essential, and quickly,
    because the fight does not end once they are restrained. They fight
    against their restraints, all the way to a physiologic death spiral.
    Most of the “Tazer deaths” you read about in the papers were patients in
    excited delirium. The Tazer probably had little to do with it, but they
    don’t issue sedatives to cops because they don’t have the training to
    administer them safely.

    We do.

    In those cases, the sedation is LITERALLY to save the life of a patient
    who is obviously mentally incapacitated.

    Otherwise, we don’t sedate your garden variety psych patient – and most
    especially the ones we think were speaking in anger or the heat of the
    moment, or those accused by third parties – for one simple reason:
    psychogenic drugs make it damned hard to separate the sheep from the
    goats once we arrive at the ED. It’s impossible to reliably assess a
    depressed patient’s emotional affect if they’re sedated, and thus
    impossible to judge if the patient needs to be committed or not.

    Sedating the violently psychotic patients actually makes it *easier* to
    assess them, because once sedated it is far easier to communicate with
    them. Kind of hard to ask a patient, “So, how are you feeling?” when the
    patient’s hallucinations make the caregivers look like face-eating demons.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     Much more reasonable, and I wholeheartedly agree with necessary action for people that are obviously in such a delirious state.

    Using drugs as a threat to force compliance or on anyone that throws at punch at you in their own home that you are trying to drag them away is ethically inexcusable.

    Now there may be a few instances where this amount of confrontation to secure a patient is necessary I sure wouldn’t want to see this happen too often.

    I really can’t predict what level of force I would use if a couple of your equivalents in this state showed up and tried to haul me away for something I allegedly said. For one thing any yahoo crackpot can order a EMT uniform and as far I know there isn’t even a law to stop a burglar/home invader from doing so. I wouldn’t be happy if an EMT somewhere got shot trying to force their help on someone else but I sure wouldn’t be surprised either.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    Well, generally they have ambulances and fancy equipment that costs many thousands of dollars to go along with the spiffy uniforms, but I get your point.

    The acid test: If their uniform does not bear coffee stains, and the EMT does not look tired and slightly rumpled, he’s probably a friggin’ impostor up to no good, or a supervisor, whichever.

    Shoot those on sight. ;)

  • Matt Radcliffe

     Acknowledged.

  • mpatk

     I also won’t use chemical sedation as a threat.  If I’m using chemical sedation, it’s because the patient is violent beyond reason and neither discussion, threats or even forcible restraint will reduce their violence.  Usually there’s some drug involvement, though I’ve seen it arise from PTSD.

    As for imposters, I know of no state that allows EMS alone to take a person off the street on an involuntary psych hold; the police must ALWAYS be present and make the final decision to send the person to the ED.  From there, it’s up to the doctors and mental health professionals.

  • Matt Radcliffe

     For the first paragraph: Good.

    For the second: Shifting the responsibility to another person that is even less qualified than you to judge medical issues is a poor shield for the morality of your stance.

  • mpatk

     Matt, not shifting responsibility.  You asked how to deal with the potential for imposters; if there’s an EMT at your house trying to claim a psych hold without police to back him up, something’s wrong.

    My patient, my ambulance, my responsibility.  I take that VERY seriously.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    Personally, I hate psychiatry’s current trend of labeling every little character quirk a disease. It has gotten to the point that people who are simply shy can be labeled with autism spectrum disorder, or kids tagged with ADHD or oppositional defiant disorder who really only have Chronic Hickory Deficiency. Everything’s a disease now, so people don’t have to take responsibility for their own behavior.

  • Matt Radcliffe

    While that is a small problem as it exists now can you see the potential for more and more of these borderline issues being regarded as reason for commitment. The potential for those who refuse treatment for ADHD being defined as a danger to others? Or the danger of any political radical to be defined as Antisocial or any of the other labels and shown to be a danger to others. It is not the biggest danger to liberty and free speech in this country but it is certainly something to be watched very closely.

  • Ambulance_Driver

    Oh, I totally agree.

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