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To All of You Who Offered Condolences…

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on the death of my twin sister, I thank you.

Kim was a missionary in Port Elizabeth, South Africa, living and working at an orphanage and school there. Her friends told us that she had been swimming in the ocean near her home, and got caught by currents and drowned. Paramedics on scene were unable to resuscitate her.

I've been estranged from my family for a very long time, and Kim and I hadn't been close since we were children. But in recent years, I'd started to reconnect in some small way with my siblings, and through our older sister I learned that Kim had turned her life around, and devoted her life to God and improving the lives of countless children in South Africa. She was poor, she was uninsured, and she lived in virtual poverty, but she was happy.

And it looks like, in the last few years, she had found a way to make a difference. For that, I am thankful.

After we have time to get Kim's ashes shipped home and I have time to process all this, I'll write a post about my sister. We fought like demons and were bitter enemies for years, but there were good times, too.

I'd like to share some of them with you, to honor my sister.

Until then, thanks for your prayers and good wishes. They were very welcome.

 

 

  • http://injennifershead.com/ Jennifer

    Hugs to you.  Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Ellie Davidson

    Sorry to hear of your loss.

    Thoughts & prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time

  • http://gatorinthedesert.com/wordpress/ Gator

    If she was truly happy and had found peace, then she was richer than most of us.

    Condolences to you.

  • 40lizard

    Sounds like she was living the life she felt called to-and like Gator said she was richer than most of us- doesn’t help the pain etc, but at least that is a huge comfort knowing she was happy!

  • Anonymous

    I’m sorry to read of your sister’s death.  I too am estranged from my sister.  She began actively avoiding us 15 yers ago.  I sometimes wonder what it would be like to see her.
    It sounds like your sister came into herself at the last.  I hope that’s a comfort for you.  I look forward to reading more about her.
    May she rest in peace, and may your happy memories of hr fill your mind.

  • Jim Curtis

    Least we can do Kelly…

  • landlockedtxn

    Anytime….I wish I could do more for you, but know hugs and prayers are on their way to you and your family.

  • wrm

    I’m about a thousand km from PE but that’s a helluva lot closer than you are, so if you need help in this timezone, let me know.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Pam-Marshall/1321465631 Pam Marshall

    I was estranged from my sister for years, but the pain from her death still ran deep. My condolences. I’m glad your sister was happy and productive in her last years. 

  • Maeve

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  • Cowboy Blob

    Peace and strength to you.

  • http://anthroblogogy.blogspot.com/ DirtCrashr

    I’m sorry to hear of her passing and your loss, and glad that she found a way to calm her inner turmoil and help others.  The ocean is a mighty force and mother to us all…


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